jk it’s been some time. i’ll tell you. 


icanhaveitalll >>> tenderxqueer 

if you’re looking for icanhaveitalll/dany, they changed urls!

ask for the new url. 

on fb, by text, by email, by owl. whatever. dany is still doing the thing with the blogging and reblogging. just with a dif url. it will be ok. (and if you’re already friends on fb, you might check their fb to see if they posted a thing about this very topic. whoa)

Q-but icanhaveitalll was so good. that 30 rock reference though. i felt it in my soulllllll sadface
A-yessss i knowwwwww ugh. but all fandom based urls cannot last forever. and they have never changed urls in like three years?? what?? so now is the time to move on. 

Q-but but but i don’t have a tumblr account??? i can’t “ask”???
A-then contact dany by other means! (if you don’t know them through any other form of communication and you are stalking their tumblr w/o one yourself, then what what what are you doing?) (unless you’re jay m. or a concerned friend/follower who i’ve shared with. heart you!) 

Q-but what if i’m too shy/adjective to talk to them?
A-chances are, if you mention your username/name/that you like their hair and it’s not creepy or you’re not a shitty ex, then they will probably gladly give you the new url! for real. they would probably be feeling the same way rn if they were in your shoes. 

Q-i don’t like these options bc of reasons
A-that sucks. maybe try asking on anon and see if dany has the patience to deal with you if/when they check this account. and maybe explain the reasons bc dany is mostly a reasonable person. i think.